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Maybe its just me, but I find the term really annoying. As a gay guy in his fifties with some fur, it really boils my piss when some younger guy (usually, although some older guys have said it to me too, which is quite disturbing) calls me this, or posts it on the board to a guy in his early thirties. Apart from anything else, being gay, I personally have no wish to be a daddy. Or is this just me lol?
I'd be Billy Mongers daddy
I've had one younger Spanish guy say I reminded me of his dad, which I took it as a compliment. Unforgettable guy.
Anyway, mostly people think I'm younger than my age and I don't mind that either.
I’d be Louis Rees-Zammit’s daddy  Tongue
Oh, I get called Daddy all the time (online).  Mostly from 20-somethings.  I find it endearing. Hugs

(25-08-2021, 11:56 AM)ladsnet Wrote: [ -> ]I'd be Billy Mongers daddy

Me too!  Approve

(25-08-2021, 01:00 PM)Joe Rimbaud Wrote: [ -> ]Anyway, mostly people think I'm younger than my age and I don't mind that either.

Ditto here. Big Grin
(25-08-2021, 06:58 AM)Dataday214 Wrote: [ -> ]Maybe its just me, but I find the term really annoying. As a gay guy in his fifties with some fur, it really boils my piss when some younger guy (usually, although some older guys have said it to me too, which is quite disturbing) calls me this, or posts it on the board to a guy in his early thirties. Apart from anything else, being gay, I personally have no wish to be a daddy. Or is this just me lol?

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I mean, there are two ways of looking at it. That you fit the Daddy role and stereotype, or that you “naturally belong” in that group due to to your looks (silver fox, maybe??.

You sound like you have no trouble picking up guys. But in my case, I’d probably have to become a fully paid-up member of the bear community (even though I’m not that big).

I’m not that offended, but I didn’t want to narrow my options down too much. I’m often attracted to bearish guys, but at least wanted to have the freedom to choose.

Again, it’s down to age and appearance.
There comes a milestone in life when young adults start to address you as "Sir" and offer you their seat on the bus (I don't need it and usually decline).  Embrace it.  It's a whole new era in life with its own rewards.

If you've lived your life well then you may find yourself in the fortunate position of mentoring some in the next generation rather than foolishly trying to hold on to it.

If I could go back to being 25 again I would decline (thank you) unless I could go back knowing what I know now.
I don't mind sir as an honorific but don't like it as a kink. Hate being called daddy because it feels weird to me. An otherwise hot fuckbuddy started calling me it during sex and saying he'd be my good little boy and that was NOT ENJOYABLE.
(31-08-2021, 07:33 AM)Heinrich Wrote: [ -> ]I don't mind sir as an honorific but don't like it as a kink. Hate being called daddy because it feels weird to me. An otherwise hot fuckbuddy started calling me it during sex and saying he'd be my good little boy and that was NOT ENJOYABLE.

Thank you Heinrich, this sums up what I was trying to say in my OP perfectly.
(31-08-2021, 07:33 AM)Heinrich Wrote: [ -> ]I don't mind sir as an honorific but don't like it as a kink. Hate being called daddy because it feels weird to me. An otherwise hot fuckbuddy started calling me it during sex and saying he'd be my good little boy and that was NOT ENJOYABLE.

Christ yes.
^^In that context it’s about as sexy as talking during sex/play. You know, like in all those porn vids.

Constantly talking/ordering/reaffirming during sex. “D’you want/like that??” “Tell me you want it”. Fucks sake. Shakes

Or moaning unnaturally hard, animalistic sounds. Cold

It really seems to be an American thing, no-one else does it anywhere near as much.

(31-08-2021, 07:33 AM)Heinrich Wrote: [ -> ]I don't mind sir as an honorific but don't like it as a kink. Hate being called daddy because it feels weird to me. An otherwise hot fuckbuddy started calling me it during sex and saying he'd be my good little boy and that was NOT ENJOYABLE.
Another word that grates is “Master”. Same as above. You don’t have to say it out loud like you wear a badge.
(21-09-2021, 10:42 PM)jumbler Wrote: [ -> ]Constantly talking/ordering/reaffirming during sex. “D’you want/like that??” “Tell me you want it”.

I think that's mostly to emphasise consent
(25-08-2021, 01:32 PM)Welsh Cake Wrote: [ -> ]I’d be Louis Rees-Zammit’s daddy  Tongue

Me too
I like it when they say: "Harder!  Harder!" Spank
Big Grin
I'm partial to general moaning affirmations while their mouths are full. Big Grin
Hate being called daddy because it feels weird to me.